Primates n thinkers
Quoting a reply from my previous post, “Same kinda stuff happens to me. I think it’s genetic. There’s a switch in our brains that make us instinctively go for the loosers. It’s infallible. Solution? As my aunt once told me ‘when choosing a partner, you cannot think with this (her hands hovering over her privates), instead think with this (her hands cupping her head).’ ”
Hah! I could not agree more!! Recently I picked up a book by Allan Pease – Why men dont have a clue and women always need more shoes. We ARE wired to choose guys ”using this to think (her hands hovering over her privates)” We go for guys with broad shoulders, tight waist, tight perky butt. All this to ensure survival! I know I know its very primate… but it is very natural! And makes a lot of sense. And i knew this somehow way back even when i was younger.. hehehe
Having said that, guys who are the lead of their pack will also naturally want to spread their seeds wider! To ensure as many of their off-spring as possible.
We are just victims of nature..!! lol
Another aspect of the reply… “There’s a switch in our brains that make us instinctively go for the loosers.”
A life coach once told me, “what you resist, persist”
Think about it.
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Hi…been a while since I came to your blog…
didnt know you could come to this kinda stuff..
Women are geared towards men’s survivability. Men select women based on their reproductivity. Its inevitable
Thats just the way nature works.
Confidence and non-neediness is always attractive.
Someone who has a goal in mind, with an agenda, a overwhelming passion draws attention like a magnet.
It is unfortunate, that the more attractive the person is, the less likely she is likely to meet someone who has a passion that overwhelms the desire the desire to put her on a pedestal.
That is also the reason why, bastards and platers are naturally attractive. Because the same traits that is seen to be confident, are also the traits that make them the way they are.
what exactly is a life coach?
after reading a few of your posts, I’m wondering something… When it comes to advice about me, do you tend to look for advice from women only? Have you ever had a man in your life (not a love) that could be completely honest with you and you completely honest with him? Your brother maybe? I wise uncle?
Women know how WOMEN think. I am constantly going to women for advice about women… Men know how MEN think… Men understand MEN. Have you ever had your brother spend time with someone you’re getting interested in? I really do suggest you try this. There is a caveat, do NOT try this with someone with whom a dating relationship is possible. As sad as it is to say, a guy who is interested in you romantically, isn’t likely to be completely honest, and certainly not completely objective…
i have neither a brother nor a father.. my closest uncle is now in australia n sadly.. we never developed a bond tight enough fer us to speak bout this. he has enough problems on his own… and dont have the capacity to hold any of mine.. i’ve been wantin to have a guy in my life whom i can trust… but not in this life.. i wont…