MY reality
I grew up in a household of 3 generations of female.. 1 woman each.
So where are the men?
My grandfather is living with his second wife.
My father is living with his second wife.
I am off course not yet married.
My first boyfriend( who trophied my first kiss): kissed another girl when he was still tryin to get me into bed.
My second boyfriend: courted me to win a bet of 12 packs of cigerretts.
My third boyfriend: Flirted sexually with another girl on ICQ. Insists on boys night out so that he can approach other girls. Gave me infection and still insisted that he didnt sleep with someone else.
Had a friend's bf askin me if I wanna be his 2nd girlfriend.
Had another guy who slept with me while he was havin a girlfriend.
And I'm still encountering guys who wants to cheat on their girlfriends.
Tell me how am I supposed to have faith that boyfriends or husbands will not cheat on me?
How am I suppossed to trust?
This is the kind of reality I live in.
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Can’t stop anybody from straying. That’s the truth. Right now I can’t be faithful, and I believe that the girlfriend “safety nets” is abso-fucking-lutely unethical.
Both men and women are completely capable of the “fuck-and-fuck-off”. Really the question is what kind of emotions and significance one attaches to the act.
For trust, for myself, I only have this to say. If ever I have a gf, and she cheats on me, I don’t wanna know. If I do, I’ll have to do something about it. Ignorance is truly bliss.
Trust, the one thing that is so easy to break. Like vandalin says, somethings are better left unsaid and silence is golden.
Sorry to hear about your bad experiences with other guys, and i know it sounds cliche but i guess somewhere out there, you might find the one you are looking for.
Trust no one but yourself. Live your life the way you want to and never let a man dictate what you want.
Once you do that, you will realise that it doesn’t matter if your man cheats on you or not. Nothing matters but yourself.
It’s selfish, but it’s life.
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is trust. As a girl you’ve the power to choose. You don’t have to accept substandard guys till a decent one comes along.
dun be disillusioned.. life’s still beautiful.
it’s not on love and love alone, though it’s the basis of life.
there’s more things to do in life..
let’s just say…if it comes..it comes…=)
Same kinda stuff happens to me. I think it’s genetic. There’s a switch in our brains that make us instinctively go for the loosers. It’s infallible. Solution? As my aunt once told me “when choosing a partner, you cannot think with this (her hands hovering over her privates), instead think with this (her hands cupping her head).”
you havent hit reality. u need to meet me for that to happen.
there r basturds, there r nice ones too. such things happen .. wad kind of guys do u chose as a ur bf, or wad type of guys r attracted to u? still run around the same circle and pick the same kind of guys, same shit happens..
Most Guys are a disaster by nature but there are also instances whereby a girl gives the guy the wrong signal. Afterall it takes 2 have an affair and 2 to have sex.
the answer is simple. SO simple women in general will not believe it….